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Look in to her eyes but don’t hold the gaze too long: Nothing turns a woman in as quickly as a man who looks her straight in the eye while talking to her. Unfortunately nothing turns her off as quickly as a man who looks her straight in the eyes while talking to her. Contrary? Maybe, but read on. The trick is to show you’re interested without looking creepy. Glance deeply in to her eyes to punctuate two consecutive sentences, then on the third, turn your head and gaze off into nowhere, says psychologist, Pamela Regan. She’ll be drawn to you and the capsicum spray will stay in the handbag.

Go for the base notes: There’s a reason why the old walrus of love, Barry White’s, voice affects women the way it does. The ear is highly sensitive to vibration. Eastern sex techniques – some of which are based entirely on chanting – have proved it’s possible to reach orgasm just from sound. That explanation goes hand in hand with a study from Nottingham University in which researchers played recordings of 34 men speaking to a group of women. The women consistently rated the deeper voices as belonging to more attractive men. To prime your cords for performance try this, think of the word that has an ‘uhhh’ sound in the middle like love or honey rather than rum or chug, say the word under your breath. Hum until your lips tingle, that’ll warm up the vocal cords so your voice will be richer and deeper when you open your mouth to speak.

Red, Red, Red: Red vibrates sexual energy, go for a tie rather than face paint and leave the lipstick to her;-).

Get on her nerves: Literally. Nerve endings are clustered around the inside of her wrists and elbows so turn her on with gentle touches to those areas. Shake hands gently with your index finger extended so it reaches her wrist, then quickly run your finger down to her palm another area to make her tingle. Primed.