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It’s a tricky little devil for some blokes but it’s probably the single most important thing to learn about if you want your lady to keep coming back…That’s coming not cuming –well, not for now anyway.

So why is the clitoris so important. The clitoris is packed with thousands upon thousands of nerve endings, much like the foreskin on the penis. It is the only part of the human body there purely for sexual pleasure, luck girls huh!

Well yes and know because many, many men simply don’t know where it is or what to do with it. Located just above the vaginal opening the clitoris is a small mound that gets engorged when the woman is aroused. Most of the clitoris in under the skin and surrounding muscles but enough of it is exposed to allow location if you know what you’re looking for and roughly where to look.

The clitoris is tucked under the clitoral hood, stimulation of which will in turn stimulate the clitoris itself. Some women prefer this indirect approach while others prefer direct stimulation. The arousal gorging may reduce quite dramatically just as a women reaches orgasm but this is perfectly normal.

So what is the best thing to do with the elusive clit once you’ve found it????? As a general rule it’s best to start slowly and gently, don’t rush it just because you’ve found it…She’s pretty much always known where it is. If you’re too aggressive with sucking, rubbing or licking you can cause discomfort and/or pain for a woman, so remember gently does it.

Starting gently with rubbing, stroking or tounging will allow the clitoris to engorge, gradually build up the pressure applied and speed of the stroking, sucking action as she becomes more aroused.

Most women will experience intense pleasure from this attention and many will cum. In fact many women cannot cum without direct clitoral simulation. (worth remembering).

And finally, make sure your fingernails are trimmed before you start playing down there – remember those thousands and thousands of nerve endings – and if you are going to give your lady some oral sex action please shave.

And for the girls who might read this...If he still hasn't found 'it' try one of these cuties The Venus Penis, The Vibrating Clit Pump