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There is no doubt some men think his lady swallowing after oral sex is incredibly erotic but there is much to be said for the non-swallowing element of surprise.

There are three simple things women should bear in mind when it comes to sex in a relationship.

Have you ever thought about introducing a sex toy in to the relationship but not had the faintest idea how to go about it? Have a read, here are a few tips from 'them what know.'

Straight Single Guy: Men take a certain amount of pride in their bedroom abilities, and despite the fact that we intellectually know most women can’t orgasm from insertion alone, it bums us out. However, letting a guy know that his anatomy is acceptable (almost too acceptable, really) and that you just have different needs goes a long way towards soothing his ego. Throw in something about the mystery of female sexuality and that you’ll let him hold the device in question, thus providing him additional “skin in the game,” and it should be gravy. Unless he’s a jerk or a babyhead! The straight single guy is Tom Miller, you may be familiar with his blog Tomfoolery

Straight Married Guy: The dead cliché answer would be to remind him that  they’re only called “toys” and “novelties” to get around puritanical blue laws. In reality, you could tell him, sex “toys” are tools for sex. Guys like tools. But here’s a more original approach: Tell him, if someone brings a Monopoly board into the den it would be a pretty good sign she’d like to play with you, right? So if your partner brings a sex toy into the bedroom that’s an even better sign she wants to play with you.

And ladies if you have a close gay friend or several you may want to pass this one on - Gay Married Guy: Get over yourself. And bend over.

Now you know how have a look at some of these and really have some adult fun.

Are you getting the orgasm you truly deserve? No! There is something you can do about that.

Attractive young researchers approached opposite-sex strangers and proposed casual sex. 75 percent of the men said yes. But not one woman was interested. Is this a great surprise?